Why are you telling me this?
Let’s be honest here.
There are things that you know…truths you intrinsically understand…but which you don’t particularly want to know. Harsh facts and unpleasant realities. They’re not fun to think about…but with some effort you may be able to change how they feel to you, to get them to the place where…maybe they’re not really so bad…
And in this way you begin to adorn these truths with pleasant wrappings of denial; soft terrycloth bathrobes of denial; diaphanous silk pashminas of denial. Those wrappings should come off once in a while. Let the air get to it;
That’s what this place is for. Disabuse.